愛情??

到底什麽是愛情呢?

有人覺得,愛情就是要轟轟烈烈,愛到死去活來。不在乎天長地久,只在乎曾經擁有的戀愛,對很多年輕、血氣方剛的少年少女們,是必然的。就算以後愛變成了恨,他們也無怨無悔。

有人覺得,愛情就是要細水長流,一起長長久久。對他們而言,很多事只要忍一忍、等一等,捱到結婚,那麽事情就會有轉彎的餘地。可是,忍了以後,我們看到的,是離婚、家暴以及一段又一段的婚外情。

有人認爲,另一半必須與自己匹配,門當戶對。只要有些人不符合自己的條件,或覺得他配不上自己,就把人家抛棄。到頭來,得到的是騷擾,更嚴重的事情殺!

有人認爲,另一半必須有錢。如果是男的,那麽就可以少奮鬥二十年;如果是女的,那麽就可以當少奶奶,每天過著瘋狂血拼、美容、享受的日子。(我認爲是廢人)

有的人認爲,另一半必須有樣子,帶出門才不會失禮。帥哥美女在這個年代十分的吃香,可那些長相平凡的人呢?不是被當“豬扒”、“恐龍妹”,就是“宅男”,“囧”。唉,真悲哀。。。

有些人會在年輕時,認爲男女朋友應該黏在自己的身邊。只要奪命追魂“call”后沒回應,就吵吵嚷嚷,閙分手。你可知,他們在為你們的未來打拼呢?如果年輕時不努力,老的時候,你們又再爲了困苦的生活而爭吵。。。是不是很矛盾呢?

可能你們看了,會覺得:“你又不是身在其中,講得甚是輕鬆啦。。。”但是,在戀愛的過程中,各個往往都是盲目的。所謂:旁觀者清。在未開始一段戀愛前,大家最好先考慮了所有的因素,才決定再不在一起。只有理智的戀愛,才會有幸福快樂的未來。。。祝大家幸福!!

人生無常。。。

最近,雖然自己過得很平靜,但是突然間發覺,好多朋友身邊、四周,都發生了不如意的事。。。

從看到資深演員陳鴻烈過世的消息,媽媽身體有些異樣,姐妹淘忽然很失落,到好友父親不舒服,這一切的一切,都象徵人生無常。。。有誰會永遠快樂呢?有誰會永遠健康呢?有誰會指導下一秒會發生什麽呢?

看過了《2012》,突然間,我被點醒了。人生就不過是短短幾十年,一眨眼我也渾渾噩噩過了二十年。。。現在的我,只希望自己可以知足,把握現在,珍惜所擁有的一切。。。就算是世界末日來臨,我也不會有任何後悔。而且,我現在正讓自己投入主的懷抱,希望主的恩典會臨在我家。。。

朋友們,有什麽,都可以來找我傾訴。。。雖然我並不會是一個最好的開導者,不過,我會盡力當一個好的聆聽者。。。我也不懂的安慰別人的話,只是想在這裡,希望大家一切安好。。。


New Hair Colour

Jz went to have my new colour... like it so much!! hehe


Da jie n me!!

Dajie


mom's "bao jou por" look

Outing~~

Yesterday went to redbox wif my honey, laogong, pei fen n ming yeh, and it was fun!
such a long time din siao wif my beloved friends liao.. hehehe....

we sang a lot of sampat songs, do a lot of sampat things together.. wahahaha.. so enjoy... i'm looking forward of our next outing leh!!

p/s: all pics dun have fen... cos she was playing kids' block.. lolx

流星雨。。。

本來還蠻期待這場流星雨的說。。。可是,人算不如天算,天算不如不用算,雲層好厚哦!還以爲晚上下了一場雨,天空會晴朗的說。。。

從12時開始等到現在,似乎看不到腦海裏的畫面。。。偶爾有看到類似流星的物體,卻又懷疑是不是眼花了。。。我從天空是藍的,看到慢慢的變成橙色(光害反射在雲層上)。不眠的夜,等到的卻是無情的坏天氣T_T。。。

沒有度過這個夜晚,我還不知道原來檳城的光害是那麽的嚴重。整個城市在夜裏不是黑漆漆,而是橘橙色的。。。或許這就是城市的小孩的天空吧~

廢日子~~



這幾天的生活還蠻廢的。。。每天吃飽睡,睡飽吃。。。上網、看電視。。。要不然,趴趴走!!本來還想找份兼職的說。。。問了幾份,都沒消沒息的,有點兒放棄了說。。。
今天心血來潮,拍了幾張照。。。不好意思啦,房間滿亂的!打掃得FEEL還沒來。。哈哈哈~

1st outing nite...

Finally i went out at nite.... lol...
for those who know me well, i've never been at outside at nite since around 10pm till 130am... break my record looo`~~

It's all bcos of YOU -- Yuh fen, Koh lee n Seang...
i really had a great time chatting wif u guys, such a fun ler....
it's been a long time we din gather together liao, since that time we went for dinner at 白雲山...
a relaxing chat is better den lots of entertainment...

Now, i'm looking forward of our K-date... hope to meet u guys soon!!!!

Another 14 hours.....

It's just left 4 hours to my lunch, 6 hours to my final paper, 9 hours to take bus and 14 hours to reach home.. I din really pay attention on my final paper d, as it really have too many holidays in between.. BTW, there are more n more "tips" coming out and i dun feel like wanna study other things ady.. huhu

Finally, today is my last day in my room in this semester... i found out that i din really stay at my room for so long leh! since last fri till now.. OMG... but it's a nice feel as i jz have to wait for my lunch n dinner time everyday.. hahaha

The followings are things that i packed...




These are the small part of my huge storage in uni... lolx..












I have no mood to do anything else now except sitting down and wait for holidays to come...

my dear frens, HAPPY HOLIDAYS~~

Sleepless nite...

CANT sleep at all.. sobs...
now only i realize i lost my MP3 player.. gosh
i cant even recall back when was the last time i saw it....
hate that i cant find my things leh... make me insomnia.. sien niah.... T_T

矛盾-ing

現在好矛盾哦!!怎麽辦呢?

想打工,可是打工了,就沒得好好玩,好好休息。。。
想休息,可是沒打工,就沒有錢花,沒有錢玩。。。
啊!!!AN JUA HOR???
who can gimme any suggestion??
To work or not to work, that's my problem!!

Vacation.....

Recently, i feel like wanna go for a vacation so eagerly... I doesn't know why i have this kind of feeling... maybe I've been working and studying for one and a half year non-stop.. to me, going to KL for a vacation is now a nightmare... there's nothing much in KL actually.... the shop there are the same with what i have i Penang, and those I cant find in Penang, i will never put a step in it... lolx..

There are a few location that I hope to go..
1. Langkawi - although it has not much to play, but it's nearer and i haven't been there after 3 years old i think... I dun even have any idea that i went there before....
2. Redang - a place quite far from me... with nice beach and wonderful view.. jz think of snorkeling and music party there makes me feel so enjoy.. sobs...
3. Singapore - another place that i hope to go, but not that eagerly.. hohoho... maybe is i dun like the pace of the place kut... too fast and too hurry... (plus a long bus trip there, torturing!!)
4. Hattyai - best place for shopping.. cheap things and nice product there.... but not that relaxing too~~

I wanna find kaki to teman me lah!! who wanna follow me for vacation?? Cameron highlands oso can.. i dun mind oso.. jz that i can find a place to relax myself and have a break neh!!